A girl isn’t born to be labeled by a boy. Unlike every other creature on this planet she was born to be free and live life on her own terms. They must have been in relationships since their teenage and some of them continue to be with a partner happily. But as the common saying “All that glitters is not gold”, there are hardships too. Now at my 20’s I personally accept the intriguing fact that being singe is hell lot more easier, simpler and exciting than being with anyone else. Being single isn’t a tragedy. And last I checked, I really wanted to be single so as to be spared from all obnoxious things and to enjoy my life on my terms and conditions.
So here are the 10 perks of being a Single Girl :
10. YOUR TIME IS ALL YOURS
It’s all your time now, you can do whatever you want to, when you want and where you want to. There is no such person at the other end nagging you every time to do hell lot of things that you never want to. You can do various crazy things without giving a second thought. You can also utilize your time in doing stuff that helps you to be more or less like a person you ever want to be. You can always start off with a new hobby anytime.
9. HANGOUT WITH FRIEND
Being single allows you to focus your full attention on the love you have with your friends. On being single you can spend days and nights enjoying or trying to figure things out together. On being single you hangouts with your friends in the night “Night Out” without any worries, permission or any explanation.
8. NO EMOTIONAL DRAMA ANYMORE
It’s not that being in a relation always hurts you emotionally but you do have to face ups and downs to keep your relationship working. Thus, if you are single girl then do enjoy your life to fullest. No endless squabble, cheating and trauma. Well, if you are one of those who believe in living life according to you, either find the most understand partner or live single and live life king size.
7. DATING AND FLIRTATION
Being single affords you the freedom to take your time and learn what you like, through often-absurd trial and error. There’s nothing to hold you back: flirt with who you want, when you want and where you want! No need to worry about accusing looks and speculation over your faithfulness, you’re completely free to say what you like! You could go out on a date with a different guy every night if you so want.
6. RESTRICTION “FREE” LIFE
When a girl is in a relationship, somehow there are lots boundaries being set for her by her partner. Sometimes, these boundations lead to choking of the relationship. Being single gives you the opportunity to live your life on your own terms. There are no such boundations or restrictions upon you. There is no obnoxious person strangling you to do stuffs that you like. You can limit yourself according to your very own set boundaries.
5. NO ANNIVERSARIES JUST BIRTHDAYS
When you are in a relationship you are supposed to remember the first date anniversary, first purpose anniversary, first kiss anniversary and a hell lot of other anniversaries, the list goes on and on. But when you are single, you can get rid of all these crazy anniversaries. All you got to remember is the birthdays of various people who makes your life a special one and who have been there for you no matter what.
4. TRAVEL ALONE
If you are single, you can take full advantage of every day that you can spare. From weekend jaunts to summer resort vacations, this is the time in your life when you can best afford to get away. Traveling as a single woman presents both unique challenges and unique rewards. If you are concerned about traveling alone, get together a group or sign up for singles’ trips. These trips will help you to explore not only the different people and culture but yourself too.
3. CAREER FREEDOM
A single girl has the ability to dedicate herself to her career. If your work is important to you, this is your opportunity to develop your career. You can make choices that would be tough with a family to support. Knowing that we can rely entirely on ourselves, that we can make our careers and our work/life balance what we want them to be. When we’re alone, we can focus on building our lives secure both financially and professionally that ensures we will not need to rely on anyone else. Taking the time, while we have it, to make our career dreams come true, is an investment that pays off the rest of our lives.
2. ALL MONEY IS YOURS
It’s yours! All yours! Do what you want with it! Spend it on what you like or hoard it under you mattress. Spend it on buying various attire or while on an exciting trip with your family or friends. Dinners out, mini vacations and gifts all add up to a significant amount of cash. Save this money towards something that betters you in the long run.
1. GET TO KNOW YOURSELF
Many girl define themselves by their family roles. Being single, however, gives you the chance to discover who you truly are. Living single gives you the freedom to discover yourself, which in turn will you help you decide what you want in a partner. Many girls grow up with an internal voice of doubt and insecurity. As a single girl, you will need to handle things on your own; to take on responsibilities from having your car serviced to dealing with home repair emergencies.